Edify!

Edify = instructive or informative in a way that improves the mind or character (Merriam-Webster Dictionary)

"The Greek words oikodomeo, 'to build,' oikodome, 'the act of building,' are used both literally and figuratively in the New Testament; 'edify,' 'edifying,' 'edification,' are the translation of the King James Version in some 20 passages, all in the figurative sense of the promotion of growth in Christian character." (Orr, James, M.A., D.D. General Editor. "Entry for 'EDIFICATION; EDIFY'". "International Standard Bible Encyclopedia". 1915. Definition of edify by F. K. Farr.)

Some of the Bible passages that speak about edification are:

• Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another (Romans 14:19).
• Let every one of us please his neighbour for his good to edification (Romans 15:2).
• All things are lawful for me, but all things are not expedient: all things are lawful for me, but all things edify not (1 Corinthians 10:23).
• But he that prophesieth speaketh unto men to edification, and exhortation, and comfort. Even so ye, forasmuch as ye are zealous of spiritual gifts, seek that ye may excel to the edifying of the church. How is it then, brethren? when ye come together, every one of you hath a psalm, hath a doctrine, hath a tongue, hath a revelation, hath an interpretation. Let all things be done unto edifying (1 Corinthians 14:3, 12, 26).
• Again, think ye that we excuse ourselves unto you? we speak before God in Christ: but we do all things, dearly beloved, for your edifying (1 Corinthians 12:19).
• And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers; For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ: Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers (Ephesians 4:11-12, 29).
• Wherefore comfort yourselves together, and edify one another, even as also ye do (1 Thessalonians 5:11).
• Neither give heed to fables and endless genealogies, which minister questions, rather than godly edifying which is in faith: so do (1 Timothy 1:4).

Quite a few years ago, I was a visitor in a church service. Behind me was a woman whose speech was full of snide and critical comments about all of the proceedings. I felt badly for her—such bitterness—and I was tempted to get up and move.

Sometimes, in our own church, we hear negative speech. Probably, the person speaking has no idea what effect it has on the hearers. I would guess this problem is typical of most churches.

We go to church for many reasons, but one of them—a very important one—is to edify other Christians. We want to mutually encourage so that we'll all become stronger in the Lord.

So, how can we actually build one another up in the Lord? Here are a few ideas. You'll probably think of more.

1. Be kind and friendly. Just a kind word, a nice hello, and a firm handshake in greeting makes a difference.
2. Share. Be open with your friends at church. Tell about what God is doing in your life. Share your blessings. If you're on social media, share what encourages you. It could be a verse, beautiful sacred music, or an answer to prayer.
3. Build up. How can you encourage the person beside you in the Lord? Do it. Maybe all you can do is smile. You could share a kind word. Be mindful of others. It is better to prefer others than to be self-centered.
4. Minister. Does someone in your church have a need that you can help to meet? Do they need a meal? Child care? A gift to get through a rough patch? Can you lend your extra car? Do they need special care after losing a loved one? Are you even aware of the needs represented by those around you? Open your eyes and see how you can bless someone today.
5. Do away with criticism and negativity. Catch yourself before you open your mouth. If you genuinely don't approve and believe a comment is needed, go privately and speak sincerely one-on-one with this person. Go in a spirit of humility. Bathe your encounter with prayer. Go to the meeting with the goal of resolving the problem. (See Matthew 18:15-17 for the biblical process.)
6. Honor those who should be honored. I believe we could be more conscious of occasions (birthdays, anniversaries, special days) for those in authority in the church. When is the last time you presented your pastor or his wife with a card? When is the last time the church did something special for them? Is there anyone else who deserves recognition? It is great to honor those who should be held in esteem. It will encourage them. (See 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13.)

The next time you go to church, purpose in your heart that you will edify others. Set out to encourage at least one person, so that they will be motivated to grow in the Lord. You will treat others pleasantly and be friendly. If everyone would do this, our churches would be havens of spiritual growth and brotherly love.

Edify.