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Saturday, December 2, 2017

"This is Your Life" Survey Results

A short time ago, I asked my social media friends to answer ten questions. Many of my friends are Christians. A lot are missionaries, too. But, this survey was totally anonymous, and I think the answers are very interesting. You might want to survey your friends, too. I want to thank every single person who answered my survey. It was fun to get a glimpse into your life.

Q What is your favorite warm drink?
A hot chocolate  19%
     tea  25%
     coffee  44%
     Other  13%   One participant doesn’t like warm drinks, preferring iced. Others love: cider, Crystal Lite fruit punch, raspberry tea, chai latte, and ginger honey lemon “tea.”

Q Do you express yourself best talking or writing?
A talking  48%
     writing  52%

Q Besides the Bible, what is your favorite book of all time?
A One of my friends doesn’t enjoy reading. Eight said it was very hard to pick just one book, and one said her top book keeps changing. First, the secular books that were listed: Heidi; Jumanji; The Scarlet Pimpernel; Anne of Green Gables; Little Women; Corduroy by Don Freeman (children’s book); When Hitler Stole Pink Rabbit; Endurance: Shackleton’s Incredible Voyage; The Complete Works of O’Henry; Pride and Prejudice (2); Shipwrecked; and Lost Moon: The Perilous Voyage of Apollo 13 by Jim Lovell. Two also mentioned anything written by Louis L’Amour. Christian books mentioned: Hinds’ Feet in High Places; The Robe; Not My Will; My Utmost for His Highest; Calm My Anxious Heart by Dillow; Evidence Not Seen (2); The Shadow of the Almighty; The Hiding Place by Corrie Ten Boom (2); Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers; Explore the Book by Baxter; We All Have Faces by C. S. Lewis; The Silver Chord by Sallie Lee Bell; The Chronicles of Narnia (2); The Lord of the Rings; Love and Respect; and Hudson Taylor Biographies 1 and 2 by Taylor. Several of my friends listed favorite authors: Karen Kingsbury, Isobel Kuhn, Jane Austen, Patricia St. John, and Schaeffer (Edith or Francis?).

Q What makes you cry every time?
A a sad movie  10%
     weddings  8%
     any touching story  16%
     tragedies  6%
     when I feel something intensely  30%
     Other: One participant said it's hard for her to cry. One cries at parades. Another mentioned broken relationships and disappointments. Another said she cries when reflecting upon God’s love, goodness, and grace. She also cries when someone shows her love and when she sees answered prayers.

Q What was your hardest experience?
A death of a loved one 18%
      losing a job  0%
      a break-up (relationship, marriage) 15%
      a wayward child  15%
      experiencing abuse  5%
      my own vice(s) (gambling, drug use, pornography, alcoholism, etc.)  3%
      financial problems  3%
      Other: The responses include: rape and consequent reactions from Christian leaders and the process of recovery, a nervous breakdown, being falsely accused (2), betrayal (4), a loved one’s suicide, panic attacks with anxiety and darkness, leaving a church, the loss of a baby through miscarriage, separation from family and children (5), the hardships of living in a third world country (walking everywhere, shortage of electricity, washing clothes by hand, etc.), manipulative family members, watching parents age and not being able to care for them, and work problems.

Q What have been your greatest joys in life?
A my marriage  41%
     my children  48%
     my grandchildren 17%
     an intimate relationship with Jesus Christ 75%
     nature 16%
     feeling healthy  9%
     friendships  20%
     my home  5%
     having things around me that are comfortable and nice 3%
     my job  6%
     Other: Three people said helping others is a great joy. Two said sharing Christ. Other answers were: seeing a ministry grow, godly parents, seeing his/her students serve the Lord, being surrounded by believers, and music.

Q Do you play a musical instrument? If so, please list.
A Yes. 31%
     No. 33%
     Instruments: Twenty-seven friends play the piano, nine the flute, six the guitar, five play the clarinet, and four the violin. Three each play the accordion and recorder. Other instruments with two musicians each are: trumpet, ukulele, and dulcimer. With one each: the pan flute, autoharp, organ, cello, banjo, mandolin, saxophone, modern psaltery, tin and penny whistles, the taishogoto (a Japanese stringed instrument), and the vibraharp.

Q Do you (Did you) play sports?
A. No, not at all.  44%
       Of those that play sports, these are are named. (The numbers of participants are after each one.) Volleyball (10), running (4), swimming (5), basketball (3), softball (6), cheerleader (2), gymnastics (4), tennis (4), biking (3), badminton (2), athletics (2), soccer (2), and one each for: hockey, ice skating, table tennis, aerobics, and drill team.

Q What has been your best life lesson?
A Note: those that are worded almost exactly the same are grouped together. I’m putting a number after those to indicate how many people said the same thing.
  • God is my Heavenly Father. He sent Jesus to make me His beloved daughter rather than a slave. As such, prayer is actually talking with my all-wise, loving, and powerful Father, and He listens and responds. He heals me when I forgive from my heart and trust Him for perfect justice.
  • Learning to be flexible and content. Learning the world does not revolve around me.
  • It's a choice of will ... what you do with the life you've been dealt.
  • From Psalm 46:5, 10-11. Learning that God's early is not my idea of early, but exactly in His perfect timing. Be still and watch to see how God works, because He will always get the glory. As a result, others will see God's work in my life and the experience may be used to draw them to God. The LORD of hosts is always with me. The God of Jacob is my refuge. Joy and strength comes from my walk with the Lord, not others and trying to live in the box others or myself think I need to live in. No matter what happens, He is there and teaching me through it all. All that I learn and go through can be used to help and encourage others.
  • God is faithful and to not be afraid to share the gospel. (2)
  • As a missionary, the only real constant in our lives is God and our immediate family. Often all we've had is God and each other, but those are the things that matter most.
  • Know your Bible and follow what Jesus says. It is so much better than living by whatever moral compass pops up and living for self.
  • Not to judge people
  • No one can steal my joy because Jesus gave it just to me as a gift from him, The only thing I have to do today is please the Lord, everything else will fall into line.
  • That I need to ask counsel of the Lord even for the smallest things. Many times, I do not do it, but it is prideful and silly not to. And also, learning to bite my tongue.
  • Learning to pray about everything and for a lot of people. I had some real prayer warriors in my life that made a difference, and I've learned from them.
  • Put your confidence in Jesus, not people. (3)
  • Listening is the best heart wound healer.
  • To relax and let God lead the way, instead of stressing over always having to make things "perfect" on my own.
  • How to value my marriage
  • Find your purpose in Christ, and fulfill it. Not a general purpose like glorify God and enjoy Him forever, but a specific purpose and calling from God. (2)
  • Allowing Christ to take control of my life.
  • My best life lesson would be to trust God with a childlike faith.
  • God has a plan for everything!
  • I need people in my life, despite relationships being hard for me.
  • Hang in there. God, in His timing will provide a way through.
  • That I can do nothing without the Lord’s help.
  • Learning that Jesus is my strongest rock throughout difficulties in my marriage. (Thankfully, they are mostly resolved now.)
  • You can’t control everything.
  • Seek first the Kingdom of God. In all your ways acknowledge Him. (2)
  • That God's way is always perfect even if it isn’t what I would have chosen.
  • It has taken me some time to realize that all people are undependable. People change; people mean well, but they are not always able to follow through; people say what they think you want to hear, whether they mean it or not; some people will do or say anything to avoid conflict. But, Jesus is always faithful; He is always dependable; He always does what is best for me. When I decided that everything I do is for Him regardless of what other people do, I became free to live each day for Him alone.
  • Take life one day at a time.
  • Never say "never." Always enjoy "the little things," because if you didn't have them they would become the "big" things! Count your blessings! "God knows," and that is all that matters.
  • My dear mother taught me so many lessons! Her motto was, "Live simply so that others can simply live!" She taught me to turn disappointments into His appointments and a flopped angel food cake into Sunshine Squares.
  • To get rid of bitterness right away.
  • Expect nothing, be grateful for everything.
  • Learning to trust God’s Word. God is always good and He will never fail.
  • God is bigger. Than what? Anything. Any problem. Any difficultly. Any hurdle. Even than any relationship here on earth. His plans are bigger. His ways are bigger. His grace is bigger.
  • Contentment.
  • I have always tended to live in anticipation of something coming. When I was little, it would be the weekend, or the next school vacation, etc. I think it is important to live in the present. Not easy to do for me, but important. "This is the day that the Lord has made." "Give us this day our daily bread." I think that's what those verses are getting at.
  • Learning to trust God completely and totally. Full surrender. (Still learning it.) (2)
  • Learning to make things right even when others don’t want to.
  • People are important. We are here to tell others about Him, so take the time to build relationships and make them important.
  • Have the right priorities.
  • Many situations seem insurmountable, unfixable, or too far gone. But God can make something beautiful out of nothing. Leaving the matter to His repairing and trusting He will provide a way gave me the peace I had searched for. I learned that my job is to always stand back, let God work, and focus on handling what comes in a way that pleases Him. I answer to Him for my responses alone, not to others.
  • Patience and loneliness. Both of these were a part of my growing up. Now that we have been on the mission field for more than thirty years, where the need for patience and loneliness can sometimes be overwhelming, I think the Lord prepared me for our work here even in my childhood.
  • Best life lesson was learning to communicate for understanding and learning to ask great questions.
  • It’s not worth it to be anxious for what you can’t control. Live from day to day, and leave the rest in the hands of the Lord.

Q If you were to give one sentence of advice for the whole world to follow, what would it be?
A Note: again, I’m grouping some of these answers.
  • Listen to and yield to and believe the loving Heavenly Father Who sent His own Son for you.
  • Get the chip off of your shoulder and look for a way to serve others.
  • Raise the bar on how low a version of yourself you will accept, so your life matches your dreams—or better yet, God's dreams for you.
  • How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time.
  • Love God with your whole heart. Be who God created you to be to glorify Him.
  • To repent and believe in Christ, and to Love the Lord your God with your whole heart, mind, soul and strength, and love your neighbor as yourself. (5)
  • The truth will make you free.
  • Live life as if there's no tomorrow.
  • Trust Christ as your Saviour and follow Him with all your heart.
  • Love God and love others.
  • Treat other people the same way you would like to be treated. (2)
  • Accept God's plan of salvation, live for Him and serve Him by being faithful.
  • Pray for people that you have a hard time with; it will better help you deal with the issues and problems.
  • The world does not revolve around you! Be kind! (2)
  • Trust Jesus Christ's death on the cross for payment of your sin and accept His gift of righteousness.
  • Stay in God's Word, listen and obey His commands.
  • Keep your eyes on Christ!
  • Be prepared for eternity by accepting Jesus Christ as Savior!
  • Jesus is enough.
  • Psalm 16:11 Thou wilt show me the path of life [Trust an unknown future to a known God.]; in thy presence is fullness of joy [There is joy and purpose following Christ]; at thy right hand there are pleasures forevermore. [Live in light of eternity.]
  • Take Jesus as your Saviour and let Him take control. (2)
  • Jesus is Lord, so turn from everything else and acknowledge Him!
  • Trust wholeheartedly in the Lord Jesus Christ.
  • Remember God, love him, trust him, obey him.
  • Take life one day at a time and make the best of it.
  • Don't listen to the world!!
  • Love like Christ. Also, this, too, shall pass.
  • Listen to God, listen to others, respond to God and respond to others.
  • “Do your duty in all things. You cannot do more, you should never wish to do less.” General Robert E. Lee
  • Make your relationship with Jesus the best, most growing thing in your life, so that when the hard times come, you don't have to find Him. He is already there.
  • Listen to those who have gone before you.
  • “That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.” Romans 10:9
  • Let go and let God.
  • Follow Christ with your whole heart
  • Trust God because He loves you unconditionally.
  • Have Faith in God! F-A-I-T-H = Forsaking All I Trust Him!
  • Marry the person God wants you to marry.
  • “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth on Him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” John 3:16 (2)
  • Trust God. For eternity, absolutely, but also in the big and seemingly not-so-big of the every day.
  • Trust God, obey God, follow God, and tell others about His Son! (2)
  • Christ, others, you: in that order.
  • Desire to know God and then follow His leading.
  • I would have a hard time choosing between, "Be good to each other" and "Shut up and listen."
  • God's way is always the best way.
  • Enjoy every moment the Lord gives you, because things could change in a split second.
  • Listen to the gospel, and weigh it in the balance against whatever your own beliefs are.
  • Jesus has all the answers.
  • Actions speak louder than words; let others see Jesus in you.
  • God’s Word is everything.
  • Submit your life to God, the Savior through His Son's death, burial and resurrection, and live your purpose to honor and glorify Him in all things.
  • Seek peace through Christ for yourself and your family first and the rest of your life will fall into place, even the hard challenging times because you can rest in His care and will.
  • You must sacrifice the good to get the great.
  • Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. No government or public figure can change the heart of people.

Wasn’t this fun? I love getting to know my friends!

A nurse who answered the survey tells this story. "An elderly patient with connections knew the hospital’s CEO. She had him on speed dial and she was not shy about reporting the nurses for not meeting her every whim. She also wasn't shy about using her call light non-stop. She had turned particularly difficult since learning she had only a few months to live. All the other nurses were afraid of her. On this night she was assigned to me. She was an angry woman who wore bitterness on old face. Her body was shriveled and sunken. I could hardly make it out beneath the sheets and blankets. After midnight, I answered her call light twice. Each time, I was convicted to share the gospel with her. I ignored the conviction. Shortly after 2:00 a.m. I answered her call light again. I met her need and raced for the door. Just as I reached the handle to open the door, I was convicted again to share the gospel. I looked up into the far corner across the room over her bed. I quickly told God all the reasons why I couldn't share ... not the least of which was that the woman would complain and I would lose my job. I could lose my nursing license as well, if a complaint was filed the state board. Then I remembered Who had given me my license in the first place ... and my own faithlessness. I gave my job completely to the Lord, took a breath, and walked back over to my patient's bed. She prayed and repented .... I watched the peace of God come down upon her. I saw her face change and the bitterness leave. I told her that Jesus would always be with her and that she would never be alone again. Her soft childlike voice shocked me as she said, "You mean I will never be alone again?" "Yes," I reassured her. "You will never be alone again. Jesus says He will always be with you." The room was filled with peace. And then she told me her story. She was a Jewish child in Nazi Germany. Because she could pass as German, a Christian family took her in. Every day, she prayed for her family and for their deliverance. When the war was over, she was the only survivor in her entire family. She turned her back on God. But, God waited sixty years for her. I never saw her again. I believe I will see her someday."

What’s the most important thing in many of my friends’ lives? Their personal relationship with Jesus.

And we know that the Son of God is come,
and hath given us an understanding, 
that we may know him that is true,
and we are in him that is true, even in his Son Jesus Christ.
This is the true God, and eternal life.
(1 John 5:20)

Get to know your friends. Ask questions. Enjoy their answers!

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