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At summer camp, one of the little girls
reached for a counselor’s phone and said, “Let me take a selfish.” She clearly
meant “selfie,” and all of us laughed. Later, the counselor said, “Well, it is selfish!”
I’ve tried to take selfies several times
with varying results. (I think it has something to do with the length of your
arms. If you’re short like me, you can miss all together, and the results can
be really funny!)
I have a few young friends who post
selfies almost every day on social media—or so it seems. The comments are
always “looking good,” “you always look pretty,” “I like your hair,” “you are
so beautiful,” and so on. Do selfies fulfill the need for affirmation?
When you travel alone, you might take
selfies just to prove you were there, so as not to lend your camera or phone to
a stranger.
Selfish means being egocentric and lacking consideration for others.
Contrast that with selfless, which means thinking of others before one’s self.
Jesus
was completely selfless. Yes, Jesus is God, and He
is perfect. I am reminded of Philippians 2 which says, Let this mind be in you, which was also in
Christ Jesus: Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal
with God: But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a
servant, and was made in the likeness of men: And being found in fashion as a
man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the
cross. Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which
is above every name (Philippians 2:5-9).
Can you imagine that God Himself limited Himself with flesh, became servant to
all, and then died a criminal’s death on the cross—for love?
I can’t begin to comprehend this kind of
selflessness.
Yet, the Bible says, Let this mind be
in you.
Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in
lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves (Philippians 2:3).
That’s humility.
That is selflessness. That is Christ-likeness.
Is a selfie selfish?
I have no idea.
Am I selfish?
Way too often.
Let this mind be in me . . . esteeming others . . . serving others . .
. not thinking about my reputation . . . humility . . . obedience to God, even
unto death.
Laying aside self.
Now that’s the best image, the best selfie of all: selfless.
What a picture!
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